Home for the Holidays

“Happy Thanksgiving!” “Merry Christmas!” “Happy New Year!” As the end of the year approaches, everywhere we turn someone is telling us we should be happy. This time of year can be as rough for some as it is joyous for others. My mom died a few years ago. It seems like it was only yesterday, When she died, I mourned my loss, I felt like part of me had been taken away, a portion had died. Whenever I would go into a room with others, I felt as though my presence could have parted the Red Sea. Instead of greeting me warmly people would get quiet and step aside. I knew they did it because they didn’t know what to say, but what they couldn’t say is how much it magnified my loneliness. Continue reading “Home for the Holidays”

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An Ever-Changing Perspective

PerspectiveMost people think that life is nothing but what they see in front of them; ‘what you see is what you get’. Black and white. I refuse to accept that belief and point of view, because I know there’s more under the surface of every experience and opportunity; to every facet of life. The physical world and what we see, and feel is not all there is. There is a world of purpose underneath it all, and no matter what it looks like on the outside, there is much more going on beneath our circumstances, our perceptions. Continue reading “An Ever-Changing Perspective”

Where Isn’t God?

big-bang-703908CNN published a story yesterday about the final book written by the celebrated physicist Stephen Hawking written by Rob Picheta. In fact, this story has gone viral and is all over the internet and several news outlets.

The story in CNN begins with “There is no God — that’s the conclusion of the celebrated physicist Stephen Hawking.” In the article Picheta also quotes Hawking as saying “There is no God. No one directs the universe,” he writes in “Brief Answers to the Big Questions.” Picheta goes on to quoting Hawkins with  “For centuries, it was believed that disabled people like me were living under a curse that was inflicted by God,” he adds. “I prefer to think that everything can be explained another way, by the laws of nature. Although, people of faith regularly assure one another that God is not responsible for human suffering. Continue reading “Where Isn’t God?”

Sleepwalking

imivjsv3wvw5pp2nvmhuSleepwalking is a behavior disorder that originates during deep sleep and results in walking or performing other complex behaviors while asleep. Sleepwalking will typically involve more than just walking during sleep; it is a series of complex actions performed while sleeping. Because a sleepwalker usually remains in a deep sleep throughout the entire episode, he or she may be difficult to awaken and will probably not remember the sleepwalking incident. It is a common misconception that a sleepwalker should not be awakened. It can be quite dangerous not to wake a sleepwalker. What a striking metaphor, the state of heathenism or imperfect Christianity, is like the stupor of sleep. Continue reading “Sleepwalking”

Total Access

Sierra-Workforce-Solutions-Workplance-Security-AccessControl-e1389048310112We live in a world of access codes, security measures, digital barriers, and restricted use. We need ID cards to enter certain buildings, we need thumbprints to access our smartphones, we need passwords to retrieve particular computer files, and we need PIN numbers to get money from our bank accounts. We need security clearances to enter certain buildings and other restricted areas. Continue reading “Total Access”

Do “NOT” Fear “ME”

encounter-your-shadow-self-1The British philosopher, Bertrand Russell once said: “The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are so certain of themselves and wiser people so full of doubts.” Most people reach a point in life where they are caught up trying to “figure out” who I am, why I’m here, and what MY life purpose is, yet rarely do we stop long enough to consider whether any of this really matters, to begin with. Perhaps the idea of MY “identity” or “finding MYSELF” hinders ME just as much as it helps ME. Perhaps it confines ME in more ways than it frees ME. Continue reading “Do “NOT” Fear “ME””

An Appointment to Keep

AppointmentI’m sure that your life, like mine, revolve around “keeping an eye on the time.”  Whether for personal or professional obligations, we can’t get away from our time obligations and the need to stay on schedule for fear of turning our whole world upside down.  Yet it continues to amaze me that I still must deal with people who seem to have no regard for, and place no value on, the importance of keeping appointments or who are perpetually late for everything. Continue reading “An Appointment to Keep”